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عزة النفس

اللى وده يكون ذو قيمة عند الناس , وله احترامة وتقديره فى المجتمع , يحاول قدر المستطاع انه ما يخلى لاحد عليك منة او فضل ، سواء كانت هذى المسألة صغيرة او كبيرة , معاملة فى وزارة , توصى احد اييبلك شى مكلف واهو مسافر , تبى احد يتوسط لك فى وظيفة مرموقة , ابتعد عن هالشى قدر المستطاع , وابتعد عن الامور المتعلق بالماديات , فلوس او غيرها , وانت قيسها .

حتى قبول الهدية المبالغ فيها اللى مو فى وقتها , يمكن تجعل للانسان اللى اهدى لك الهدية فضل , وممكن يمسكها عليك بالمستقبل , وممكن الشى هذا يخدش مروؤته وتحط من مكانتك .

الإنسان لابد ان يشتغل ليل نهار , ويجتهد عشان ما يحتاج لأحد فيكون للآخرين عليه منة او فضل .

سئل احد الحكماء عن المروءة  فقال : العفة والحرفة .

والحرفة انا شخصيا احط تحتها الف خط , حتى ان اهل العلم والحكمة يشوفون الجاه اللى وصله الانسان من كسب ايده أفض من الجاه اللى وصل للانسان بالورث , لأن  الورث يا للانسان من غير تعب , وممكن يروح بسهولة مثل ما وصل بسهولة , ولكن الجاه والمال اللى وصله الانسان عن طريق التعب من الصعب انه يفرط فيه او يضعه على توافه الامور , وان ضاع لسبب من الاسباب فهو يعرف كيف يحقق الثروة مرة ثانية .

علي بن أبي طالب يقول لإبنه الحسن رضى الله عنها ، في وصيته : يا بني ، إن استطعت الا يكون بينك وبين الله ذو نعمة فافعل ، ولا تكن عبد غيرك وقد جعلك الله حرا ، فإن اليسير من الله تعالى أكرم وأعظم من الكثير من غيره , وإن كان كل من الله كثيرا .

التعاون بين الناس تعاون ائتلاف وتكافئ , لكن عمر الاستعانة ما كانت تفضل , ويمكن يكون العكس , ممكن انا اطلب وانا المتفضل على الناس , نفس الحاكم لما يطلب من شعبه , الكل ينفذ وهو ممتن , او الزوج لما يطلب من زوجته تسويله عشى لعزيمه مثلا , وتكون اهى المستمتعة واهى اطيع زوجها .

لكن الانسان احيانا تحدث معاه امور تطر الى ركوب الصعب , يطلب ولكن بقدر الحاجه , وما يجعل هالشى حجة له عشان يعيش على غيره , المضطر يسأل الانسان المتأكد اللى راح يلقى عنده الحاجته , ما يعرض حاجته لكل انسان .

قيل فى المثل : اطلب الحوائج من أهلها ، ولا تطلبها في غير حينها ، ولا تطلب ما لست له مستحقا ، فإنك إن فعلت ذلك كنت حقيقا بالحرمان , فالكريم مساعد ، واللئيم معاند ، المخذول من كانت له إلى اللئام حاجة

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