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الأتيكيت

قبل كم سنة رحت الحج وكان معاى بالعرفة 3 شباب , كان معانا ريال عمره فى اول الخمسينات , اذا دخنا الغرفة باى وقت يكون فاتح الليت اما يقرا , او نايم على سريرة وحاط الفوطة على راسه , فى يوم قلتله حضرتك نايم ولا صاحى , فقالى :
بصراحة نايم لكن ما ودى احرجكم معاى , اخاف اسكر الليت وانام انتو تنحرجون بدخول الغرفة , فاتحمل , وكلها يومين يابن الحلال وكل واحد يرجع بيته .
بصراحة ابهرنى بأدبه وذوقه العالى والفن فى التعامل مع الناس اللى ما يعرفهم , هذا السلوك نسميه بالكويتى السنع , السنع ما يتعلمه الواحد بالمدارس وصعب ان الواحد يستوعبه من الكتب من غير لا يشوف تطبيق عملى لهذا السلوك , اهو امر تتربى عليه من صغرك , او الله يوفقك له , هذا اللى يسمى باللغة العربية بالادب , اللى العلماء يقدمونه على العلم , واللى يسمونه الغرب بالاتكيت .

نظلم السنع او الادب او الاتكيت اذا حصرناه بطريقة الاكل او اللبس , الاتكيت هو الذوق العالى والمبالغة فى مراعات الاخرين , اهو سلوك يساعد الناس على الانسجام مع بعض , وتنمية الحس الجمالي فيهم .

من الادب انا ما نقبل مجاملات او هدايا من ناس إلا إذا الاستطاعة على رد المجاملة برد الهدية مثلها , بعيد عن الاتكيت انى قاعد مع مجموعة من الاصدقاء او الاهل ومشغول بقراءة الجريدة او المجلة او ماسك التلفون وارد على المسجات او اتابع تويتر .
من السنع ان الازواج يبتعدون التدليل الزايد لبعض امام الاقارب او فى الاماكن العامة ومراعات مشاعر الآخرين , وفى المطعم من السنع ان الزوج هو اللى يكلم الجرسون لاختيار الطلبات , وعلى فكرة هذى عادة غربية مو بس عربية .
من الادب مع الاخرين انا نستاذن فى فتح شباك السيارة حتى لو كانت سيارتى , يمكن تيار الهواء يأذي اللى معاى او يزعجهم .
إذا دخلت على الطبيب ، الاتكيت انى اتذكر أنى مو المريض الوحيد وان فى العشرات برا فى قاعة الانتظار وفى منهم من بحاجة اكبر للعلاج .
السنع انى اذا قعدت مع واحد سمين انى ما اتكلم عن الرجيم وشمسوى بالنادى , مثل هالسوالف ممكن اتضايق او تجرح ، وذا قعدتى مع وحدة الله ما رزقها عيال حاولى قدر المستطاع الابتعاد عن الكلام عن اطفالك وأهميتهم في حياتج , واذا قعدتى مع يتيم لا مافى داعة تذكر يمعة الاهل وهدايا الوالدين
من الادب إذا قعدنا مع ناس يتكلمون بامور خاصة عن ناس مو معانا , اما نحاول نغير الموضوع , او نترفع ونترك المكان .
ومن الاتكيت انك ما اطق اصابعك بين الناس ، وخاصة لو فى احد يتكلم , ولا تزعجهم بصوت المسباح .
بعيد عن الاتكيت انى طالع مع صاحبى بالسيارة ونص الطلعة كاشت بالريال واتكلم بالتلفون , لكن الصحيح لو برد على التلفون لابد انى ارد بعد الاستئذان .

الاتكيت اذا قدمت لى هدية افتحها أمام مقدمها وأشكره عليها وابدى مشاعر الفرح حتى لو كانت الهدية عادية

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