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قبل كم سنة زارنى فى الكويت احد اصدقائى من الامارات , هالانسان بصراحة محل النفس , وايد قريب من قلبى , بالطريق وانا رايح الفندق , يانى اتصال  فقلت للمتصل اقط صاحبى الفندق وامرك , اخونا الاماراتى ما طوفها لى جان يقولى بنوع من المزاح : هى هى ليش تقطنى شو سويتلك.
من يومها وانا حريص ما اقول كلمة اقط فلان , واستبدلها بكلمة اوصل فلان , بنفس اهمية نوعية الكلام اللى نقوله , مهم الطريقة اللى نقول فيها الكلام , المقدرة على الالتزام باللباقة ومراعات شعور الآخرين هى رسالة تقولك انت انسان رائع تستحق الحب والاحترام  .
انسان اخطا بحقك , حاول تمسك اعصابك وبدل ماتقول أنت مخطئ, نبدلها بكلمة : اسمحلي ابين لك وجهة نظري , بدل ما يلوم المدير الموظف على التاخير  ؟ ممكن يقول : عندك مشكلة تأخرك , فى شى أقدر اساعدك فيها .

وبدل ما يقول المدير للموظف تقريرك ضعيف , يقدر يقوله : يحتاج تقريرك إعادة صياغة , ممكن للمدير انه يستبدل كلمة أنت غير مؤهل للقيام بمهامكالوظيفية , ويقول الشغلوايد معقد ويتطلب منك جهد كبير .

وفى وسط الازمات المالية والاستغناء عن الموظفين فى بعض الشركات ممكن ما نقتل الموظف بفقده لوظيفتة وجرح لمشاعره , ونقوله أنت مفصول , ممكن نقولهالشركة تعيد تقيم خططها , واحنا مطرين لفقدموظفين مؤهلين مثلك , كأن الخطا من الشركة مو من الموظف او من الازمة المالية .

ممكن الزوج بدل ما يلوم زوجته على المصاريف الزايدة , ممكن يقولها أنا متأكد إنج تقدرين تلائمة المصاريف مع ميزانية البيت , بدل الوالد والوالدة يلومون اولادهم على الدرجات المتدنية , ممكن يقولون بإمكانك أن تستثمر طاقاتك بشكل أكبر .

جميل ان الانسان يختار الكلام اللى يتكلم فيه بعناية كبيرة , حلو ان الانسان قبل ما يتكلم يراعى الظرف والزمان والمكان اللى تنقال فيه السالفة , اللباقة هي القدرة على الإحساس بمشاعر وأفكار الناس , اللباقة ان الواحد ما يشغل الناس بالكلام عن نفسه , اللباقة انك تستمع للآخرين أكثر مما تتكلم  ، اللباقة انا ما نتكلم بالاشاعات والقيل والقال , ومن اللباقة التنازلعن الكلام لمن هو اكبر منا, اللباقة عدم الكلام الجانبى مع شخص فى وجود شخص ثالث , كما وصانا الرسول عليه الصلاة والسلام , اللباقة عدم الحديث بصوت عالى اشبه بالصراخ , اوعدم الحديث بصوت منخفض اشبه بالهمس , اللباقة انك ما تتكلم بالانجليزى مع ناس ما تفهم هالغة بشكل جيد , اللباقة انانضحك مع الناس ما نضحك منهم

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